God is saying to you: “I was directing you toward myself, I was preserving you for myself. You didn’t commit adultery, because there was no one to persuade you to do so; there was no one to persuade you to, because I made sure there wasn’t. Time and place were not available; and it was I who made sure they were not available. Or there was someone trying to persuade you, a place was available and so was a time; you didn’t consent because I frightened you off. So acknowledge the grace of the one to